
AGATHA NWANDO IGBOKWE
1950 - 2026

AGATHA NWANDO IGBOKWE
1950 – 2026
Funeral
Friday, 13 November 2026 · 10:00 am
St. Martin's of Tours Catholic Church Nsukwu, Abatete
Get directionsInterment follows immediately at Chief Laz Igbokwe's compound Umunri, Nsukwu
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Memories & tributes
Mrs Uchechukwu Ezenyi ( nee Okelu )
4h ago
Tribute to Dr. Mrs Nwando Igbokwe
Knowing you is knowing kindness, Knowing you is Knowing calmness, Knowing you is Knowing quietness, Though, with all these qualities You remaineth the source of peace, Love and heart of anyone that comes around you You were a role model to all around you Your home was my home away from home when I was at UNN. Your warm reception and the entire children of yours made me not to miss home so much. You were just ezinne to all of us at Margaret Cartwright home. We will definitely miss your lovely smile and advise. May the angels welcome you home and crown you with eternal bliss. AMEN.
Obiamaka Nechi
4 days ago
Tribute to Mummy
Mummy, I honestly don't know where to begin or what to say. But given this opportunity, I just want to say a big thank you for always looking out for me and my entire family. Every time you called, you would ask, "Ị na-anụkwa ọnụ mama gị?" Even when you didn't have to, you still made sure you visited us during my brother's burial. Little did I know that would be the last time I would see you. I didn't know, Mummy... I really didn't know. I can never forget the shock and sudden transition from excitement to disbelief when Nkem called. Before she could even say a word, I screamed, "I will call Mummy now oooo!" Only for her to respond, "You will call her in heaven." For a moment, I went completely quiet, struggling to process what she had just said, until the reality finally dawned on me. My grandmother was so fond of you, and my mother never fails to speak about how beautifully you raised your children. She constantly refers to you as an example of good parenting. One memory of you that will forever remain with me is our trip to your farm in Nsukka to harvest cassava, which we later processed into bags of garri. That was my very first practical experience of how garri is made. And, of course, morning Mass was something nobody dared joke with! 😊😊 You were a woman of discipline, and everyone who came through your home was guided by those same values. Your home was a home for everyone, a place where people felt welcome and where you lived a peaceful and purposeful life. Honestly, I could go on and on, sharing the many beautiful memories I have of you. Mummy, I find comfort in knowing that you are in a better and happier place. Please extend my warmest greetings to my grandmother. Rest peacefully, Mummy. You will be deeply missed, but your kindness, love, discipline and beautiful memories will forever remain in our hearts❤️
Uchenna Udeagwu
4 days ago
Tribute to My Lovely, Resilient and Courageous Aunty Agatha
Dear Aunty and Sister (The Udeagwu Family), Words cannot describe how shocked and heartbroken I was when I heard that you had left us. You were not just Dad's closest sibling and friend; you were also like a mother figure to me. You took it upon yourself to guide me and do everything within your power to keep us all together. You were there not only for your immediate family but also for your first family, even when your children sometimes felt you were getting too involved in matters that perhaps weren't yours to handle. But you understood that some battles were worth fighting, and you never hesitated to stand up for the people you loved. Your life taught me what it truly meant to be a supportive wife, a devoted mother and a woman of strength. You showed me how to make the most of what life offered, how to make even a little go a long way, and how anyone can raise six children while still making something meaningful of themselves. I feel incredibly blessed and lucky to have had you as my Aunty. You were a woman of courage, resilience and love and the lessons you left behind will remain with me. Dr. Mrs. Agatha Nwando Igbokwe, I miss you, Aunty. Thank you for the love, guidance and memories. Your impact on our family will never be forgotten. Rest peacefully until that beautiful day when we shall meet again to part no more Forever in our hearts Uchenna Udeagwu Your loving niece/sister
Chinyelu (Chichi) Udeagwu
1w ago
A Tribute to my Beloved Aunt
Aunty, it is so incredibly hard to find the words to write this to you. You have been such a foundational part of my life, especially when I was growing up. You were always a woman of strong principles strict, yes, but we always knew, without a shadow of a doubt, that it came from a place of deep and profound love. You held us to high standards because you cared so much about who we would become. My father, Fidelis C. Udeagwu, God rest his soul, loved you so very much. He never missed an opportunity to come and visit you, and that devotion became the greatest gift he could have ever left for the rest of us. The love he had for you created a bridge that brought my cousins, Chizoba, Eloka, Nwanneka, Nkem, Oge, and Tobechukwu,right into the heart of our lives. Because of you, the lines between cousins completely vanished. You built a home and a family where my cousins, my siblings, and I didn't just grow up as extended relatives. You made us true brothers and sisters. Thank you, Aunty, for your fierce love, your guidance, and for being the anchor of our family. The sibling bonds you helped us build will keep us united forever. I love you deeply, and your legacy lives on in all of us. Rest well Aunty.
Kosi Udeagwu
1w ago
Tribute to my Aunty, Dr (Mrs) A.N Igbokwe
Your gentle presence, quiet strength, and warm smile have been a steady light in our family for as long as I can remember. Though my heart aches at your passing , I am deeply grateful for the privilege of being your nephew and for every moment of care, wisdom, and love you poured into us. Rest now in perfect peace, dear Aunty your memory will forever live in our hearts Your nephew Kosi
Chinwe Mofunanya
2w ago
A TRIBUTE TO MY DARLING AUNTY MAMA CHIZOBA
It is with a heart full of pain and deep sorrow that I write this tribute to my beloved Aunty Mama Chizoba. Your passing came as a great shock to our family, and accepting that you are no longer with us is incredibly difficult. Your departure has left a painful void in our hearts, one that words can hardly express. Aunty, you were more than an aunt to me; you were a blessing, a source of comfort, a pillar of support, and a beautiful soul whose kindness touched our lives in countless ways. You were always there for my family, offering kind words, heartfelt prayers, encouragement. Your love was genuine, and your care came from the depth of your heart. I will forever be grateful for the kindness you showed me during my university days in Nsukka. Also one of the things I will always cherish is how you stood by me after the passing of my husband. During that difficult and painful period of my life, you never stopped checking up on me and my children. You would call to know how we were doing, encourage us, pray for us, and remind us through your actions that we were not alone. Your calls were more than just calls; they were expressions of love, concern, and compassion that brought comfort to my heart. You were truly a beautiful soul, a woman of love, kindness, generosity, and faith. The love you showed my family and me is a gift I will continue to treasure for the rest of my life. Your passing has reminded us how precious life is and how deeply one person's kindness can impact the lives of others. Though your time with us has come to an end, the beautiful memories you left behind will forever remain in our hearts. Aunty thank you for being there for me and my family. Your passing hurts deeply, and you will be greatly missed. However, I take comfort in knowing that you have gone to be with the Heavenly Father Rest in peace, my darling Aunty. May the good Lord receive your beautiful soul, grant you eternal rest, and comfort everyone you have left behind. May He strengthen your family to bear this painful loss and give them the grace to hold on to the beautiful memories you have left with them. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace. 🕊️
Onyekachi Onwuchekwa
2w ago
A Tribute to an Unforgettable Teacher: Mrs. Nwando Igbokwe
It is with a heavy heart that I pay tribute to an exceptional educator and a guardian of young spirits—our beloved Mrs. Nwando Igbokwe. Hearing of her passing was deeply painful. Only recently, during the UNISEC Class of ’99 Lagos reunion on April 25th, I asked her daughter, Nkem, after her and was glad to hear she was doing well. It is hard to believe that such a bright, irreplaceable light is gone so soon. To the pupils of University Primary School, Mrs. Igbokwe was an accomplished and respected teacher. To me, she was a quiet saviour during one of my most vulnerable moments. When I had to repeat Grade 4, I walked into class terrified, burdened by shame and the dread of ridicule. But Mrs. Igbokwe was extraordinary. She never had to raise her voice to command authority; her quiet, dignified strength earned effortless respect from every pupil. Above all, she protected us. Long before anyone could make me a target, she had already set firm boundaries. I vividly remember a classmate starting to tease me, only to be stopped immediately by another pupil who reminded him of Mrs. Igbokwe’s strict warning. Without ever exposing my vulnerability, she had quietly built a shield around me. Because of her, the classroom became a sanctuary rather than a place of fear. She gave me the room to breathe, rebuild friendships, and focus on learning without anxiety. She did not just teach from a syllabus—she protected my dignity and restored the confidence I thought I had lost. Teachers of Mrs. Igbokwe’s calibre are rare. Her legacy lives on not only in the achievements of her students, but in the self-worth, she nurtured in our hearts. To Nkem and the entire Igbokwe family, I share in your grief. May the Almighty grant you comfort, strength, and peace during this painful time. May the gentle, noble soul of Mrs. Nwando Igbokwe rest in eternal peace. — Engr. Onyekachi Onwuchekwa Former Pupil & Alumnus, University Primary School
Dr. Joy Odimegwu
2w ago
TRIBUTE TO MY DEAR UNN AUNTY
TRIBUTE TO MY DEAR UNN AUNTY I received the news of the passing of Dr. Mrs. Igbokwe with deep sadness. Mrs Igbokwe has a special special place in my heart. She provided me with a home away from home during my years in secondary school and university studies at Nsukka. UNN Aunty as I fondly referred to her opened her pristine home to me as a young student of St Cyprians Special Science school in the 90s. I was one more member of the family. She fed and mothered me whenever I visited, and so many times, I spent weeks or days at her beautiful and well-organised home. She was the epitome of cleanliness and order, and I learned so much from her. Those were memorable days filled with familial love and comfort. Aunty, I pray that your beautiful soul will continue to rest in peace. Amen. I pray also for all the members of the family, Chizoba, Eloka, Nwanneka, Nkemdirim, and Ogochukwu and all the others to be granted the fortitude to bear this deep loss. Amen. Ndo nu Umnwannem. Affectionately from Dr. Joy Odimegwu
Dr. Basil CHUKWUMA and Lady Philo Njideka Nzeako
2w ago
A TRIBUTE TO A DEAR FRIEND AND SISTER DR (MRS)AGATHA NWANDO IGBOKWE
A TRIBUTE TO A DEAR FRIEND AND SISTER DR (MRS)AGATHA NWANDO IGBOKWE Nwando, my dear friend and sister, the news of your passing left me shocked, heartbroken, and overwhelmed. I was taking a walk when your daughter, Chizoba, called to tell me. Overcome with grief, I found myself on the ground, crying as I haven't done before. Your daughter Chizoba, who had just lost her beloved mother, somehow found the strength to comfort me. Only a few days earlier, I had spoken with you alongside your daughter, Nkem. Nothing in that conversation prepared me for how near the end would be. I thought you had come to Lagos for a medical checkup, as you had done before. Little did I know that it would be our final conversation. Our friendship began more than fifty years ago, when my family returned to the University of Nigeria, Nsukka, following my husband’s study leave in the United Kingdom. Your late husband, Chief Laz Igbokwe, was my husband’s childhood friend, and that bond brought our families together. Over the years, you became far more than a friend: you were a sister and trusted confidante. As a teacher at the University Staff School, you brought patience, and a motherly touch to the extra lessons you provided. Many children benefited from your dedication, including my dear daughter, Barrister Anuli. Our children grew up together, and the friendship between our families extended into the next generation. Even after my family moved to the Enugu campus of the University, we remained close. We stood by one another through significant family milestones—traditional and church weddings, bereavements, and other moments of joy and sorrow. Every opportunity to be together was precious, filled with conversation, laughter, and cherished memories. I remember visiting your home in Abatete with my husband to console you after the loss of your brother. I can still picture your husband preparing the Ndi Nze 2chicken. Sadly, we were in the United States when he passed away. Although we reached out to comfort you and your family and offered our support, I continued to hope that I would return and spend time with you. It pains me deeply that this wish will now remain unfulfilled. Life is indeed fleeting!!! Nwando, your gentle spirit, quiet resilience, and warm, friendly nature endeared you to many people who knew you. You were kindhearted, honest, and always ready to offer support—a true friend in times of need. You were also a woman of deep prayer and unwavering faith, devoted to Our Blessed Virgin Mary, Mother and Queen of Heaven, and to the Infant Jesus. Your faith was a source of strength and a beautiful part of the life you lived. Nwando, we will miss you dearly, but God the ultimate judge has the final say. We therefore entrust you to the everlasting love and mercy of God. May He welcome you into the joy of His eternal presence, and may the intercession of Our Blessed Virgin Mary accompany you to your heavenly home. Amen. May He comfort your beloved children and your entire family, strengthen them in their sorrow, and grant them the fortitude to bear this painful loss. Amen. Fare thee well, my dear friend and sister. Sleep peacefully in the Lord until that resurrection morning, when we shall meet to part no more. Dr. Basil CHUKWUMA and Lady Philo Njideka Nzeako
Ikechukwu Osefoh
2w ago
Tribute to Mrs Nwando Agatha Igbokwe
The shock of your demise has been truly devastating and has brought immense sorrow to all who knew and loved you. We are deeply saddened by your departure. You were a source of joy, kindness, and strength to so many people. Your presence brightened lives, your words brought comfort, and your actions left lasting memories that time can never erase. As we mourn your passing, we also celebrate the life you lived and the countless hearts you touched. We find comfort in knowing that your legacy of love and kindness will continue to live on through everyone who had the privilege of knowing you. Rest peacefully, Aunty. Your memory will remain a blessing, and your spirit will continue to inspire us every day
Anonymous
2w ago
TRIBUTE TO MY AUNTY DR. MRS. AGATHA NWANDO IGBOKWE
TRIBUTE TO MY AUNTY DR. MRS. AGATHA NWANDO IGBOKWE Our beloved Aunty Nwando, you have gone home to meet your maker. Even after our late uncle left, you remained — a true mother to us. You were a devoted daughter of the Catholic Church, a Prayer Warrior whose Rosary never left her hands. Day and night, you prayed for us. You lived for the Mass, for the Blessed Virgin Mary, and for prayer. You showed us that widowhood is not loneliness, but deeper union with God. Your strength, elegance, humility and kindness will never be forgotten. Your prayers kept us. Your faith taught us. Your love held us together. We will miss your Rosary, your smile, and your gentle counsel. Rest in the bosom of the Blessed Virgin Mary whom you loved so dearly. Adieu, our mother. Pray for us in heaven, as you prayed for us on earth. Eternal rest grant unto her, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her. May she rest in peace. Amen. From your Daughter Dr Mrs Ngozi Agunwa(Née Igbokwe)
Iphie Ugonabo (nee Ezepue)
2w ago
In Loving Memory of dear Aunty Agatha
Aunty Agatha was a gentle, soft-spoken woman whose warmth and kindness endeared her to everyone around her. Growing up on campus, we regarded her family as an extension of ours, especially as her husband came from my mother’s hometown. Her children became dear friends, and over the years, our families shared a bond that extended beyond friendship. Aunty Agatha was a devoted woman of God and a dedicated teacher who pursued excellence in her profession and continued to develop herself through further studies. She rarely raised her voice, always wore a reassuring smile and offered gentle counsel whenever it was needed. Her values were evident in the wonderful children she raised - Chizoba, Eloka, Nwanneka, Nkem, Oge and their brother. It is deeply saddening that she has left us at this time. Yet, we take comfort in the beautiful life she lived, the lives she touched and our faith that she has been welcomed into God’s eternal rest. To her children and the entire family, I extend my heartfelt condolences. May the Holy Spirit, our greatest Comforter, strengthen and console each of you, and may the beautiful memories of Aunty Agatha continue to bring you peace. Rest peacefully, dear Aunty Agatha. Your gentle spirit and beautiful legacy will never be forgotten. Amen. ♥️
Iphie Ugonabo (nee Ezepue)
2w ago
Francis Ejike
2w ago
Tribute to Late Auntie Agatha Igbokwe
In Loving memory of my amiable aunt Dr. Agatha Nwando Igbokwe-Nee Udeagwu. The shock of the news of your passing is still causing a nightmare to me and made me feel very sad and angry for short life term of good and kind people like you auntie Agatha. I remember our growing up days when we played together and you were always there for us and praying for our success in life. Thank you my lovely auntie Agatha for your encouragement to me and my siblings. I had wished you stayed much longer than 75 years old and I’m so proud of you for the good impact you made as peace maker with lovely touch in the hearts of people around you. I thank God for the great achievements you made in life such as raising a beautiful family, high academic laurels and maintained a peace maker role to the end despite the health and economic challenges you encountered. Rest in peace my dear auntie. May you have eternal rest in the Lord bosom. Amen
Dr.(Mrs) Juliana Obiageli Nwosu
2w ago
I was deeply saddened to hear of the passing away of late Dr.(Mrs) Agatha Nwando Igbokwe. She was a mother to me and a woman I held in high esteem. Her years at the University School, UNN spoke of dedication, discipline and love for children. At 75, she lived a fulfilled and impactful life. I will forever cherish her wisdom, comportment and kindness. May her soul rest in perfect peace and may God comfort and console her family and all of us she left behind. Rest in peace, Amen
Anonymous
3w ago
Chijioke Onyeogubalu (your nephew)
In Loving Memory of Dr. (Mrs.) Agatha Nwando Igbokwe (Aged 75) To our dearest Aunty Agatha, Your life was a shining beacon of brilliance, grace, and unwavering love. Though you earned your doctorate in academia, your true gift was the deep healing and warmth you brought to all our hearts. 75 years of wisdom, dignity, and quiet generosity you leave behind a legacy that will forever guide us. Words cannot measure how deeply you will be missed, but your love will live in our hearts forever. Rest gently in eternal peace, Aunty. You were truly one of a kind.
Anonymous
3w ago
My dear Aunty, Your passing has left me feeling deeply sad. You were the youngest and the last surviving of my Dad’s siblings. Knowing you were still here gave me something to hold on to. Your presence kept something alive in me, a connection to a generation of our family that I love so dearly. Now that you have gone, it is hard to take in that my Dad and all his siblings have departed this world. I miss you, Aunty, and your passing has also brought back memories of you all. You all shared such a rare and enviable bond. The love and closeness between you were beautiful to witness, and worthy of being carried forward by those of us you have left behind. I am grateful and proud to belong to this family and to be connected to every one of you. Reading the tributes from people whose lives you touched reminds me of the difference you made through your teaching, your faith and your care for others. So many people will carry your words and your memory with them. I wish there had been more time, Aunty. Simply knowing you were here meant so much to me. I will hold that close, along with my love for you and the family bond you were part of. May God grant you eternal rest, Aunty Agatha. I take comfort in the thought of you reunited with your siblings, together again in God’s care. Rest peacefully, Aunty. You will always have a place in my heart. Your niece, Chinyelu Ijeoma Udeagwu
Obidigwe P. Adibe
3w ago
UNCONDITIONAL LOVE: TRIBUTE TO AN AMAZON; DR (MRS) AGATHA NWANDO IGBOKWE (NEE UDEAGWU)
Mummy as I call you, we saw you fighting to live, but you could no longer hold on for the last few months. Finally, you gave your hand to God slipping away quietly in your beloved daughter's lap. Things really has fallen apart, and the center is really shaking to collapse. But your spirit is guiding us to hold on to life. You were a precious gift from God, so much beauty, grace, love and patience personified. You touched our hearts in so many ways at Nsukka and beyond. Your strength and smile even on dark days made us realize we had an angel beside us. We know you will continue to be our guardian Angel. You were a pleasant, peaceful and lovely mum. This to me is not a good time to go, but then it is the perfect time with God. I would have loved you to stay a little longer with us. But then I still know I am not ready to let go at any stage. God did what only He can do. I know you will have a perfect peace in the Lord. There is so much to say, but this space won’t permit. Thank you for making my sojourn at University of Nigeria Nsukka, a good memorable experience. Your home at Magret Cartwright was open to everyone and your hospitality made everyone feel important. You were one of the most loving, humble, compassionate, understanding and beautiful souls one could ever meet. Those moments of care and love from your tender heart, at Nsukka, will forever remain green in my heart. You and Ogbuefi Chinyelugo took me like your son. Your children showed me love like no other. Thanks a lot to Nkemakolam. May your soul and that of Chinyelugo continuously rest in the bosom of Almighty God. We will forever miss you like I am missing my dad and mum every day. We love you but God loves you most. Your painful exit created a void in our hearts. But we are consoled by all the good moment we shared. Go well Mummy. Ka chi foo Obi Adibe
Prof Francis Xavier Okoye-Ugodulunwa
3w ago
TRIBUTE TO MRS AGATHA NWANDO IGBOKWE
Agatha was the daughter of my late father's elder sister. She and her older siblings extended care and concern to my late father and his family until their demise. We sorely miss them, and the death of Agatha marks the end of an era in our extended family. Agatha had the gift of strongly supporting someone at difficult times. She acted selflessly. She was principled and gave good advice. Surely, a record of her good works have accompanied her to meet God. We pray that Our Lord Jesus Christ and Our Mother, the Blessed Virgin Mary, welcome her. May the soul of Agatha and the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in perfect peace with God, Amen. Adieu Agatha! Adieu Nwando! until we meet on the Resurrection Day!! Prof. Francis Xavier Okoye Ugodulunwa, for Okoye Ugodulunwa Family.
Onwuka Kodilichukwu and Kosisochukwu
3w ago
Tribute to a Rare and Precious Gem
Oh Mummy, "Onye Umuoji" as our Dad fondly called you. Of all the things we imagined would happen this year, losing you was never one of them. Our earliest memories of you are defined by your role as our guardian. Daddy always told us how you went completely out of your way to care for us when we were born, a devotion that made our parents choose you as our Godmother. And you beautifully lived up to that role. You were not just a Godmother on paper. You were the one who checked up on us consistently, bought us thoughtful gifts, and showered us with unconditional love and care. You advised us, prayed for us and constantly encouraged us to become the best versions of ourselves. You celebrated every single win and milestone with us. Writing this tribute is incredibly difficult. How do we put into words the life of a woman who exuded so much peace, and who cared for people so genuinely? We always looked forward to visiting you every Christmas, watching your face light up as you welcomed us with, "Lekwanu umu m o!" You never failed to remind us to put God first in everything we do, always concluding with your gentle guidance: "Gbadokwanu anya, inugo?" Now, we are left with these beautiful memories, treasures we will cherish for the rest of our lives. We take solace in the certainty that you are resting peacefully in the bosom of the Lord, far away from sickness and pain. Keep watching over us from heaven, we promise to continue making you proud. We love you mummy. May your soul rest in perfect peace. Amen. From your Goddaughters: Kodilichukwu and Kosisochukwu Onwuka
Anonymous
3w ago
Tribute from University School, University of Nigeria, Nsukka

Tribute From University School, University of Nigeria, Nsukka
Mrs Regina Unoego Onuorah, clerk, Anambra State Judiciary, Ayamelum LGA.
4w ago
TRIBUTE TO A ROLE MODEL: When I received the ugly news of your demise, it's a great shock to me and my entire family. You took me as a daughter when I lived with you, you have never discriminated me and your children. Upon the fact that am no longer staying with you, you still care and help me and my family. Your good words are indelible in my life, you have been a good mother, mentor, adviser and a disciplinarian. Infact your demise has created a big vacuum to me,which only God can fill it. "Burning of night candles bring greatness" and prayers and hard works make someone successful " As you used to tell me. I'm convinced you are in the Lord's Abode, a place of uttermost rest, as you have gone to meet your Creator. Mummy rest on and be assured that your legacies and what you planted for will not be left in the mud. Rest in peace Nwunye Chinyelugo. Rest on a virtuous mother.
IN LOVING MEMORY OF DR. (MRS.) AGATHA NWANDO IGBOKWE For 75 years, Dr. (Mrs.) Agatha Nwando Igbokwe lived a life of grace, faith, service, and love. Though her journey was marked by seasons of excruciating pain, she remained a woman of remarkable courage, dignity, and quiet strength. Fondly called Mummy Igbokwe, she was a teacher in the truest sense. In the classroom, at home, in church, and in every life she touched, she imparted knowledge, wisdom, and character with patience, discipline, and love. As the youngest sibling of my late mother, her passing—at the youngest age among them—has left a deep void in our family. We had hoped for many more years with her, but we bow to the will of God. Mummy, you were a loving mother, counselor, and pillar, always ready to offer wisdom, comfort, and encouragement. In your final moments, you were surrounded by family. We mourn you deeply, yet we are grateful to God for the gift of your life and the beautiful legacy you left behind. Your lessons, love, and influence will continue to live on in all who knew you. Aunty, thank you for everything. Rest peacefully in the bosom of the Lord. ADIEU! YOUR NEPHEW ONYEBUCHI OKONGWU
7 October 2026
IN LOVING MEMORY OF DR. (MRS.) AGATHA NWANDO IGBOKWE For 75 years, Dr. (Mrs.) Agatha Nwando Igbokwe lived a life of grace, faith, service, and love. Though her journey was marked by seasons of excruciating pain, she remained a woman of remarkable courage, dignity, and quiet strength. Fondly called Mummy Igbokwe, she was a teacher in the truest sense. In the classroom, at home, in church, and in every life she touched, she imparted knowledge, wisdom, and character with patience, discipline, and love. As the youngest sibling of my late mother, her passing—at the youngest age among them—has left a deep void in our family. We had hoped for many more years with her, but we bow to the will of God. Mummy, you were a loving mother, counselor, and pillar, always ready to offer wisdom, comfort, and encouragement. In your final moments, you were surrounded by family. We mourn you deeply, yet we are grateful to God for the gift of your life and the beautiful legacy you left behind. Your lessons, love, and influence will continue to live on in all who knew you. Aunty, thank you for everything. Rest peacefully in the bosom of the Lord. ADIEU! YOUR NEPHEW ONYEBUCHI OKONGWU
Onyebuchi Omeje
6 October 2026
Dear Mummy, Writing this is incredibly hard. But I will try, not just because it is one of the last ways I can honour you, but mostly because it feels like I am still talking to you. Something I did for the last time without knowing it was the last time. Mummy, at different times in my life, I have wondered if you ever truly knew what you did for me. I came into your class (Primary 6D) as a 10-year-old with terribly low self-esteem. I was that kid who never raised his hand or his voice in class. I was that kid who constantly felt he wasn’t good enough, and eventually, my results reflected how I felt about myself. Then I met you, Mummy. What was it you saw in me when you made me your class prefect? What was it you saw in me that made you take the time to encourage me? To say those words that made me feel like I was a star? All of a sudden, I started answering questions in class. I started talking to my classmates without feeling shy or ashamed. You made me believe that perhaps I really could be the person you seemed to see in me. I remember when the Common Entrance results came out and I told you my score. You smiled. You didn’t look surprised. I feared you weren’t impressed, even though I was among the top scores. But you simply told me that I could and would do better. Naturally, I struggled to believe that, but because it came from you, I was sure I would. I did. Mummy, did you know that I grew up and would occasionally hear your voice, mostly in those moments when I was scared or doubting myself? When I got admission into university, I thought of you. But I had no way of reaching you. I remember putting out a post on Facebook, hoping someone might know how to reach you, but nothing came of it. Somehow, I just knew that I had to and would talk to you again. And eventually, I found your number. Mummy, did you know how much of an inspiration you were, and will always be, to me? When I spoke to you again, I felt like a boy again. I’ll always be your boy. I remember you telling me that you were only doing your job. But Mummy, did you ever know that what you did went far beyond the classroom? Did you know you were changing my life? Getting to talk to you again over these last three to four years has and will remain one of the greatest gifts of my life. I thought we had more time. I really did. I was supposed to come and see you. I was supposed to come and show you my wife. She married a good man because, many years ago, I met you as a boy.I promised I would come and see you. I’m sorry there wasn’t enough time. On the 12th of August 2026, we spoke on the phone. How was I to know that it would be the last time? How is that even fair? Wasn’t this supposed to be the time when I would finally show you just how grateful I am? Mummy, I know you’re with Jesus now. That’s some consolation. I know you’re resting now. I know the Lord said, “Welldone good and faithful servant,” when He welcomed you home. I don’t know anyone who deserves those words more. I love you, Mummy. And I am forever grateful to you. Until we meet, to part no more… Sleep tight, Mummy.
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